The Best Ways To Please A Woman

How Can A Man Pleasure A Woman In Bed?

As a man, you may have noticed that women seem to find it difficult to tell men what they want in bed. So, with the help of Cosmopolitan,  I’ve come up with five top tips for men who wish to ensure they know how to please a woman in bed.

After all, most men believe that an essential part of their sexuality is knowing how to pleasure a woman. And so, like most men, you probably want to know how best to satisfy your partner in bed. (And, hopefully, make her feel cherished and loved above all other women.)

We all know that foreplay and long-lasting sex can sometimes seem a bit tedious. Sometimes all you want to do is thrust deeply into your woman and come – and that’s very satisfying for you. But the surprising truth is that if you take a bit more time over your lovemaking, things can be far more rewarding for both of you. Let’s see why.

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The Top Five Ways To Please Your Woman In Bed

1: Kiss Her Romantically and Sensitively

Sensitive and romantic kissing is a great way to arouse a woman. For a woman, being kissed by the man she loves is a very romantic and loving experience. 

For a woman, kissing symbolizes love, affection and romance – all of which are powerful turn-ons for her.

So knowing how to kiss sensitively is important for every man who wants to enjoy sex with his woman, and give her the greatest pleasure.

In fact, I’d say that kissing a woman passionately and pleasurably is the foundation in knowing how to pleasure a woman and be a great lover. 

If you don’t know how to kiss sensitively and delicately, with all the variations that you can bring to your romance, have a look at this video..

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2: Discover How To Pleasure Her Breasts  

You can give a woman a lot of sexual pleasure in bed by paying the right kind of attention to her breasts at the right time during lovemaking.

You probably enjoy playing with her boobs, especially during foreplay, but how much attention do you give them as she approaches her orgasm?

Possibly not much, and that’s a shame, because they’re very sensitive and stimulating them in the right way, at the right time, can lead to a much better orgasm for her.

To start with, during foreplay, you can gently kiss her breasts all over, gradually working towards the nipples. 

She’ll adore this, because she’ll be anticipating the sensual pleasure of your kisses, as well as your gradual progress towards her nipples. By the time you get to her nipples, she will be exquisitely sensitive, just waiting for your touch. 

And that touch can be delivered in different ways, but a good way is to gently lick around the nipple, in smaller and smaller circles until you finally touch her nipple with exquisite sensitivity.

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I’ve read that it’s actually the milk ducts behind the nipple which are the source of sensitivity, not the nipple itself. So you might find that squeezing just around and behind the nipple gives her greater pleasure. However I suggest you explore this gently, because there’s not all women like this.

Another wonderful and very pleasing technique is to suck and kiss gently on one nipple while you rub a finger around the other one

And finally, most women get real pleasure from having their breasts pressed with the palm of your hand, or cupped in your hand, as you make love – particularly while you’re kissing.

This is arousing for her because there’s a direct nerve connection between her nipples and her clitoris and uterus.

3: Stimulate Her Clitoris With Sensitivity 

To please a woman in bed, in other words to bring her to orgasm, you need to pay a lot of attention to her clitoris. This is because most women cannot reach orgasm during intercourse from vaginal stimulation alone.

In fact, around 90% of women reach orgasm only through clitoral stimulation, and that’s where you need to focus your attention. Clearly, learning how to stimulate her clitoris in the way she likes is essential to being a great lover.

Keep in mind the fact that if you want her to reach orgasm while you’re inside her during your lovemaking, then you will need to stimulate her clitoris at the same time as you are enjoying intercourse.

And here, sensitivity is everything. In other words, a delicate touch is absolutely essential. As you probably know, the clitoris, the main source of a woman’s sexual pleasure, has twice as many nerve endings as your penis. When you consider the small size of the clitoral glans, you can imagine how sensitive it really is!

Once again, as with a woman’s nipples, stimulating her clitoris too soon can turn her off. Often such stimulation is just too much for a woman to cope with until she’s already sexually aroused.

But when she is sexually aroused, the right kind of oral stimulation to her clitoris will be exactly what’s needed to give your woman more intense pleasure and take her to orgasm. 

4: Stimulate Her G Spot In Bed 

To really please a woman in bed, you need to be attentive to her body. You need to know what excites her, and how to stimulate each part of her body. And in particular, you need to know  about her G spot.

If you stimulate a woman’s G spot correctly, you can arouse her fiery female sex goddess. But the sex goddess will only come out to play if she’s suitably aroused and feels safe.

As for arousal, well, did you know that most women will reach orgasm easily if they have 20 to 30 minutes of foreplay? But to make the foreplay good for you, it must be something you enjoy doing, whether that is giving her oral pleasure or fingering her G spot. Forget the debate about whether the G spot exists or not or whether a woman can actually have a G spot orgasm – it’s all an irrelevant debate.

The fact is, the G spot is a specific area on the top wall of her vagina as she lies on her back. Stimulating her G spot will enhance her orgasm and give her a deep emotional experience which she won’t have if you stimulate her clitoris alone.

If you want to know more about how to stimulate a woman’s G spot so that she has orgasms far more powerful and enjoyable simply click here for the best guide available on how to stimulate a woman’s G spot.

5: Be Dominant In Bed 

Some people say that to please a woman in bed, a man needs to be dominant and assertive in bed. You see, pleasuring a woman isn’t just about making her come. It’s also about turning her mind on to you as the dominant male in her life.

The basic idea here is that for a man to really pleasure a woman, he must be assertive in bed – sometimes even aggressive (in a safe way).

I’m not saying all women will be turned on by a man who behaves like an alpha male in bed. Truth is, you have to know exactly what the woman who’s with you in your relationship wants from you in bed. You have to know how to pleasure your woman in bed, not a made-up generic woman who likes anything and everything!

You can start finding out what your partner likes by trying gentle assertive manoeuvres. Try taking her wrists and holding them above her head on the mattress when you’re making love in the missionary position. If she protests, stop at once!

Or if she’s on top, you can take her hips in your hands and move her body in the way you want. The same is true in rear entry.  You can hold her hips and push and pull them backwards and forwards. 

And one final technique you can try to give pleasure to your woman in bed is this: when you want to change sex positions do it forcefully and assertively. Grab her, lift her, and put her where you want her without asking first. Apparently a lot of women find this arousing and pleasurable!

And of course you can always use your own imagination to come up with more exciting ploys designed to give your partner the greatest pleasure she’s ever enjoyed.

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